My mate reckons he was just nice and that 'this is what nice guys are like' and says I like the not so nice guys but..
Met him through Tinder, he seemed very excited, we spoke for about 3 days then met up.
He was sending me 'goodnight' texts before our first date, double texting if I hadn't replied within 2 hours etc.
The night after we first spoke I told him I was going to a concert the following night. (which I didn't end up going to as I got ill !) he messaged me the next morning saying funnily his friend just 'happened' to have a free ticket, could we meet up there etc.
The night before our date I told him I was with my family, and 2 hours later he texted me 'I take it youre still with your family ?'
He was excitable which I understand but I just felt like he really wanted a girlfriend as opposed to liking me particularly. When we met he said his life goal was to move in with someone, which is fine but again I felt like I could have been anyone.
He seemed like a nice person but just didn't feel any spark at all. He wanted to go on to get food but I made an excuse and cut the date short.
5 minutes after I left him he texted me saying 'I could tell we were both really nervous (for once I actually wasnt 😂) next time we will go somewhere where we don't sweat as much, I know X place'.
So he had basically said what we would be doing 'next time' without having agreed to a 2nd date.
I politely declined and he replied 'I could tell you weren't interested right from the start' which was I guess a defense mechanism.
Anyway i'm so out of the loop and used to emotionally unavailable guys, is this is how a guy should be or does he sound like a little too much ?