I was in a DV relationship 3 years ago. Mostly emotional and severely verbal. It ended up physical too, was threatened with a knife, hands around neck etc.
I got free and it's taken me years to realise how brainwashed I was and how dangerous he was.
There's no contact now not for years.
I've researched so much about this, I know now he was a narcissist and thank god he discarded me (at the time I completely had a breakdown)
I've learnt a lot about this and trauma bonding.
I don't want to report anything for my own gain, I really don't need the hassle tbh. I've moved on and I'm safe and happy even though single, but independent and got my strength back.
I worry that he's still out there, I know he won't change and he will be doing this to someone else- I know about Claire's law. Is there a way to have it documented to maybe go some way in protecting someone else in the future?
I don't want any come back but I feel the need to protect others somehow.
There's not much evidence of what he did to me - apart from a friend knowing when he attacked me and the police being called but I minimised it at the time.
No kids involved and literally no contact for years. I'm healed but I worry about others now I've realised how manipulative and evil he is.