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So I followed my gut instinct about DH cheating and.........

17 replies

NoGuts · 15/11/2019 17:26

It was wrong.

He's not cheating and never has.

Poor bloke. Thankfully he is a patient man. I have wasted weeks checking up on him and being stressed out for nothing.

Just to say sometimes that feeling that seems incontrovertible, and we are often told to trust on here, is horse shit!

OP posts:
FallenSky · 15/11/2019 17:30

What made you think he was cheating on you? And what makes you so certain now that he hasn't? I'm not a LTB kind of person and definitely don't think all men are Satan but I do believe in trust being the absolute foundation of a good relationship. What made you not trust him?

thedancingbear · 15/11/2019 17:31

Nah. You should trust your ‘spidey senses’. Ffs.

Seriously, i’m Really pleased for you OP

Doggybiccys · 15/11/2019 17:33

Not buying it.

PositiveVibez · 15/11/2019 17:41

What made you suspect that he was having an affair in the first place?

Davespecifico · 15/11/2019 17:43

What has convinced you that you were wrong?

D0G · 15/11/2019 17:44

Something must have made you suspect he was though?

SpideySenses99 · 15/11/2019 17:45

@thedancingbear I'll have you know I am very trust worthy, actually Grin

OP, thats great news. Like others have asked, whats the background?

fedup21 · 15/11/2019 17:49

Can you give anymore detail? What made you think he was? What convinced you he wasn’t?

Iggly · 15/11/2019 18:05

Well it depends. You must have had cause to think so?

Maybe he was going to cheat and you rumbled him. I’m surprised he’s so patient at being falsely accused.

SpoonBlender · 15/11/2019 18:22

Fucking hell folks, stop trying to sabotage this relationship. She had a good go at it herself and doesn't need any more help.

Iggly · 15/11/2019 18:29

Then why post? The OP was vague - so without any details it’s hard to agree or disagree with the post.

lookatthebabypenguin · 15/11/2019 18:46

Why would you name change to make this pointless post?

HarryElephante · 15/11/2019 19:12

LTB anyway.

Ilovethekitties · 15/11/2019 19:24

@HarryElephante looooool

ConfCall · 15/11/2019 19:58

An ex of mine was wrongly convinced I’d cheated. He “just knew”. This was in the 1990s and he probably still believes it now! He’s an ex because he didn’t trust me so I finished with him after 3.5 years despite liking him a lot (I’d had a crush on him for months before we got together).

I therefore agree that instinct is not always right.

Iggly · 15/11/2019 21:05

Maybe your ex wasn’t going by instinct. Maybe he was paranoid.

That’s why it’s hard to tell from the OP. Not enough info 🤷🏻‍♀️

MidnightMystery · 15/11/2019 21:11

Sometimes we can get our gut instincts and anxieties confused.

I'm happy for you x

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