(We all live in England, UK)
My ex is dating a nurse who was trying to split our family up when our baby was born as she was in love with him. I don't trust her as far as I could throw her and know she'd been jealous of me being with him, and probably still wary of me seeing as ex and I have to have contact due to our daughter.
She works in a hospital, a private hospital, and I worry she'll be able to access my records, some of which I wouldn't my ex to know about, or anyone for that matter.
Would she be able to access my medical history? Is there anything I can do to stop her or find out if she has?
I know it might sound far-fetched but I feel very uncomfortable knowing this. She babysat for us once after our daughter was born (I wasn't aware she was in love with him at the time, just wondered why she was constantly coming to see us when she'd avoided us since we'd got together) and I noticed some of my stuff had been touched, so her motives where not to give us a night to ourselves but to snoop on us.
She's a bloody weirdo who I don't want near my daughter but I have no choice. I can't stop her seeing my child but I must be able to stop her from seeing my private records.