Hi all
This is my first post and I really need a independent opinion. My partner and I have been together for 18 months. I met him when he was 8 months out of a 10 year relationship (he was 30) and his ex fiancée came out as gay. They are still in touch and she contacts him regularly. She has a new girlfriend and has openly said she is struggling with the fact my partner is happy. She contacts him nearly every couple of weeks wanting to know what heMs been up to. He tries to shut the conversation down and often doesn’t reply. He assures me it’s all in the past but I’m insecure that I can’t compare to what he had with her for all those years.
I should mention he treats me better than anyone I’ve been with before & we are really happy. We have talked about moving in together and having a family in the future. But I find myself comparing things to her & stalking her on the internet all of which I know is unhealthy but I can’t help worry I could never compare.
Any thoughts greatly appreciated (and hopefully don’t sound too crazy!)