I have been with my partner for 6 and half years and have been going through rocky patches this past year more downs than ups.
We are both working to make the relationship better he is spending less time in his man cave and more with me.
But in all my 6 years I have been completely devoted towards him and have since met this man at work and we have this amazing connection/ pull I have never felt before and it's tearing me apart inside. To make matters worse he has started messaging me online and I feel myself wanting and liking messaging him! But then I come home and still look forward being my boyfriend and want to cuddle and have sex. What can I do I don't know what to do is this normal I woudlnt act on this crush but im enjoying :( I know I would regret it if we ended it as I love him still and want him jsut need control myself.