Feel very low not getting on with DH.

[Mitsouko67]

At all. Married a long time been through ups and downs. Midlife now and feel very lonely. He is ADHD undiagnosed and working crazy hours trying to keep his business going. But it doesn't make any money and never has.

I am breadwinner and also running the home. He means well but is always somewhere else. These months he has a lot of travel and I am trying to cover work and home. DS 11 home alone a lot while he is working.

Not going to LTB and trying to do things for myself booking short breakaways etc but now we are rowing a lot again. He is calling me bitter which I am. And a nasty woman which I'm not. It's horrible.

Sounds horrible op.

Why don’t you want to leave? It doesn’t sound like it’s likely to get any better

Thanks. I appreciate that. You're spot on. I know it won't.

3 kids, I love him and enjoy his company when things are good. We've been through worse times ,had counselling and come through.

Friends and family are splitting up I don't want to go there.

Do feel unhappy and lonely. And quite shook after recent row.

It's more low level misery now than crisis point.

And harder to pull myself together these days. In my 50s and could do with some support. Fat chance.