I have been with my husband for just over two years, we were just married August 24, 2019. We lived in different cities but he made significantly more than I did so I quit my job of 10 years, sold everything I owed and moved to be with him.
Since moving every time there is something bothering me or that I want to discuss he makes the issues about me as opposed to the problem I am trying to fix.
Ex. Three weeks before our wedding he got an email confirming deletion of a dating site profile and several emails of half naked woman that he claims to not know where they came from. I stumbled across this stuff while trying to delete a draft for a job I was applying for, were in his inbox and both had been read. When I asked him (he says I accused him) about it his first response was to ask me why I'm with him if I don't trust him and to tell me he's "done" with me … he cant be with someone who doesn't trust him
I am not a distrusting person, all I wanted to know is what/where they came from and why, I wasn't accusing him of anything .. I simply asked him to explain.
In the last 7 months he called off our wedding (we did end up getting married), told me hes done and I should go on 5 different occasions each time was a situation where I asked him about one thing or another.
He asked me to leave again last week soooo I frickin did thinking it might scare him, open up the lines of communication but … nothing. I have not heard a word from him and now I'm panicking.
Your thoughts?