Love my dp dearly but lately we have both let things slide and not made effort with each other. Things feel quite bleak to me. It's not LtB territory, I love him a lot and overall we are happy. But lately we are both tired and stressed with work and other commitments. There's been a lot of snapping and bickering over silly things. No sex for ages. Little things like a quick text during the day have fallen by the wayside. I just feel deflated with things and need to speak to him about it in a non accusing way.
We have a few nights away planned in a few weeks so I think the break will do us good. Any tips on how else I can address this? I'll admit I don't make effort either because when he's too busy to make the effort my knee jerk reaction is to be grumpy and not make effort either 🤦🏻♀️