Hot and cold

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I am interested in a work colleague but he is blowing hot and cold.

We only see each other during meetings and he is sending me lots of signals he is interested. All well and good.

However, I managed to get him alone in a lift today and he looked a bit uncomfortable.

I really don't think I misread the signals so what's going on? Did I come on too strong? Maybe he prefers the chase? Or is he just not into me.

What do you think?

What did you do to him in the lift?

Nothing! I stood opposite him and smiled but he didn't look particularly interested in me anymore.

Then we walked out and said goodbye without any eye contact.

I thought he might have been a bit more friendly.

I didn't jump on him lol

How well do you know him?
Do you know for sure he’s available? Is he dating people or totally single?

Has he shown a lot of interest before? Been confident around you previously?
He maybe felt a little awkward and shy if he’s that way inclined, perhaps a bit intimidated just being the two of you?

What signals has he given, if you've only seen each other during meetings? Have you ever spoken privately, even via instant messenger?