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Should I lie to mother

16 replies

SheepGoesBaa · 04/11/2019 18:35

I have a brother. His first initial is G. He emirated to Australia in 2013. He's now living and working there.

Back at home m, I live at home with my mother and another brother. I'm Ireland and theres a housing crisis and homelessness crisis and the situation is dire.

I'm grateful for a roof over my head and I don't take advantage of it and I help at home.

Anyways, G hasn't rang home in months. I don't have any problem with that. Another brother is in Australia and he rings home sometimes. G is not dead. My mother will never pick up and call G or the other brother.

About G not ringing home, mother is concerned and thinks G has a problem. Whenever she talks like that I say, he's probably busy. Anyways mother would like me to text G to keep in touch and to touch base with him. To text him, really on her behalf. Text him and report back what he says to her.

I said to mother that I will text him but Thing is, I was unbelievably busy all weekend. I swear to god, I never got a chance. I had to sort out a plumber for a problem at home and then go to work on Saturday. I had to work again on Sunday morning and it really feels like I'm an elastic band being pulled in every direction. I was going to work this morning and she asked me again, did I text him. I said not yet. She said to do it now, I said it's the middle of the night over there, leave him alone and I will do it later. I just don't believe in texting him mindless crap when there is very little to say. I write this from work and when I get in later, I probably won't even be allowed dinner and she will be on my back about G.

Should I lie to mother and say I did text G and he texted back and said he will ring at the weekend.

OP posts:
TheQueef · 04/11/2019 18:38

No.
Just text him and tell him to call his Ma.

readitandwept · 04/11/2019 18:43

Sounds quite a daft set up, but you agreed to do it. Why didn't you just text him instead of taking the time to post this thread about texting him? Confused

kenandbarbie · 04/11/2019 18:44

Buy her an old fashioned mobile so she can do it herself?

kenandbarbie · 04/11/2019 18:46

He probably won't bother to reply to the text. Text him just to pacify her.

raspberryk · 04/11/2019 18:47

No tell her to call her son if she wants to speak to him.

MrsMaiselsMuff · 04/11/2019 18:52

Surely it would be evening there, when it was morning here?

theemmadilemma · 04/11/2019 18:53

Just text him. A text is unlikely to wake most people, but don't lie and say he's made a promise he hasn't, that's just fucked up.

FredaFrogspawn · 04/11/2019 18:55

Even if it is the middle of the night, he deserves it for not calling his mum. Just text, call mum ya nutsack. She’s pining.

Newbiemumsy66 · 04/11/2019 18:56

“Sounds quite a daft set up, but you agreed to do it. Why didn't you just text him instead of taking the time to post this thread about texting him? confused”

THIS! ^ just text him?? Not hard really

Aquamarine1029 · 04/11/2019 18:57

Text him now, regardless of the time in Australia, and then tell your mother that from now on she can text him herself. You will not be the go-between.

ButterflyWitch · 04/11/2019 19:01

In the time you took to write your post, you could have texted him Confused

Gingernaut · 04/11/2019 19:02

In the time it's taken you to post that OP, you could have called your brother.

Spend a couple of minutes to send a text.

"Call your mother. She's worried about you."

LemonPrism · 04/11/2019 19:50

Just send the text it takes 3 seconds and you're being weird

beadybear · 04/11/2019 19:54

Just text him. Why lie over nothing? Your the strange one here

GinandGingerBeer · 04/11/2019 20:06

He's probably too terrified to call! Grin
You won't be allowed dinner? Honestly love by the time you'd written this post you could have sent
' G call mam at some point soon, nothing urgent, she's getting on my case about it'
Done!

Startingoveragain1 · 04/11/2019 20:16

Just text him! Tell him mom gets worried not to hear from him! "Give her a call or send her a text!"

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