Not going to see my new man for 3 weeks, help me take my mind off him!!!!

[Jazzicatz]

He has gone away for 3 weeks and I am already missing him.

God I don't know how I would cope if I didn't see my boyfriend for 3 weeks!
I know how you feel though, I only see my new man twice a week as he works a lot and it drives me crazy. I miss him so much when he is not around. I miss the way he looks at me and the way he holds me. When I don't see him then I can't stop thinking about him. I have Four children so they tend to keep me busy. I try to keep myself occupied by playing with the kids and doing lots of housework. My house has never been so tidy.
When I'm on my own at night and the kids are tucked up in bed I read a book or watch Big Brother. Then I get myself to bed earily so I can get onto the next day.
when did he go away and can you ring him when you miss him a lot just for a chat?

god kel4mum, you are lucky to have such a nice boyfriend when you have 4 kids!!
i know i wont pull anyone decent again and i only have 2 kids!

He is lovely but it was a struggle even for him to except that I come with a family esp one as large as mine. When we first met I was only 17 and we went out for 2 years. Things didn't work out cos we were so young but we met up again after 11 years and in that time I had had my first child, then got married and had two more, got divorced, had another child and then met him. In that time he was in a steady long term relationship that ended, with no children.
What I'm trying to say is that it takes an extra speacial man to except and love you and your family. There are men like that out that and one day you too will meet your prince charming. Just wait and see.

well i aleady met my prince charming, and he took on my dd as his own for nearly 6 yrs, and then we had a ds of our own.
but then i cocked it all up by being a miserable bitch, chucking him out, he found someone new and now i am alone.

allgonebellyup: I'm sorry if I have upset you. I just wanted you to know that you will met someone soon who will make you feel the way you did before. I'm sure that it wasn't just because you were miserable that things went wrong before. You have given some brillant advise on MN and you seem to be a wonderful person, one day a nice man will spot these assests in you and whisk you off your feet.

Jazzicatz: It won't be long until he is home in your arms and then you spoil him rotten. good Luck

kel4mum, no you havent upset me at all!!(you only said nice things!)
thanks for being so sweet to me when i am so low

Thanks Kel4mum - really missing him today, this is going to be the longest 3 weeks of my life I think. He went away yesterday, and we are texting but not talking on the phone. Ho hum!!