I ended it

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It was hardly a relationship. It was dating (about 10 in total)But I was more into him then him into me. And now I'm sad and I miss him.

He said he really likes me, loves being with me and talking etc. But he doesn't want to be exclusive, and also, he is really put off by me having kids. As he doesn't want kids.
So I ended it as I said I'm not prepared to wait around while he figures out whether or not he wants me enough.

So I said we were done. And it just hurts.
Because I really liked him and we had such a great time together and of course he's fine but I'm left back to my normal boring life where I miss him. And I feel shit

Be proud of yourself that you ended it, becuase you both clearly want different things. That was great of you to do, and it will suck for a while, but you now have the chance to find someone who wants the same things as you and it will be worth it! X

He didn't want to be your partner. You did the right thing. Do nice things for yourself, get your friends around and be proud of yourself for knowing what you want and not accepting less.

You did the right thing to end it, confused. Well done.

It hurts now but it will pass.

Tomorrow is another day.

Thank you. I know you're all right and I also know it will go away.
But I'm the mean time, just fucking sucks

I'm so sorry. You are right it sucks.

I started by doing 10 mins. Then an hour until I was counting days. I was however reading all of our old messages which doesn't really count as NC. The best, but scary, advice I could give you would be to delete his number and your old conversations. But also to block him. Because once you stop contacting him, at some point he will get in touch. And believe me it can undo all the work you have done on yourself in the meantime.