So me (24), DH (35) and our daughter went to the country to spend time with my dad and his wife.
They took my daughter for the afternoon, which meant me and my husband were alone. We have a great relationship but
we have had very little intimacy since our daughter was born.
I was feeling “in the mood” and thought with my daughter gone with her grandparents it would be a great time to have that intimacy. He totally rejected me!
We shouldn’t, I told your dad we wouldn’t do things, it’s his house, let’s go for a ride etc. I got kind of upset and I don’t get it.
We have had sex once since the baby was born, she is 6 months old. In fact, we have probably had sex a grand total of 3 times since I have gotten pregnant (that sucks!). Is it too much to ask for it once in a while? Our relationship has been tense lately with her surgery and my fight with my sister but..
I asked him what’s wrong and why he doesn’t seem to want to even touch me. He say nothing and he does want to touch me but he hasn’t thought about it with the new baby, work, us being so tired. He says it’s my dads cottage and he doesn’t feel comfortable having sex in my dads place - hello? They are not here!
I am starting to wonder. Should I be concerned? I even asked him he if was seeing someone or sleeping with someone which makes me sad because it makes me doubt my husband, lover and best friend.
It turned out to be a great day but still would have been nice to be intimate. AIBU?