Seeing him 18months now and yesterday we had a chat about progression in the relationship. 1st red flag "we can't live together until my mum passes" strange considering she's a fairly fit 65yr old" 2nd red flag "my kids can't know about you cause my ex will fuck me over"
He pays cm for kids religiously and has them every other wk end and I don't get involved in any part of that. 3rd red flag literally just sat chatting and he gets a what's app and I clock a pic of a woman like a selfie. I asked who she was and he instantly changed to his work what's app group chat and said one of the boys put it up. I said ok show me then and he spent the next 30mins scrolling through and sucked 4 cigs on after other. And still couldn't find the pic. Yeah I know why. Iv put my complete trust in him he's met all my family, grandkids close friends and he knows my history. Think iv been played. Sorry to waffle on but just need to get this out before I break down I front of him and I can't give him that satisfaction