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Am resident parent, abusive ex says going to register dc with his dr

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diddlydiddlydoo · 01/11/2019 19:44

So, coercive abusive controlling ex. Am resident parent, he has contact alternate weekends. Through third party, no contact to me just parenting app thing.
He really is throwing his rattle out of his pram not being in charge.
So he says he's going to register the dc with his doctor ( he lives in another county).
Apart from the fact that it'll be annoying and ridiculous as I do the lion share of parenting, he would have access to records that would have personal info such as our address and therapists we are seeing for trauma due to dv. I know he can access anytime but they can be redacted if from my drs.
Can he do this? My surgery were next to useless saying I'd just have to re register them.

What a knob.

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pog100 · 01/11/2019 20:40

I have no idea but surely the resident parent has the say here? Anyway, bumping for you!

welliesarefuntowear · 01/11/2019 20:58

Hi, how old are your DC? At the surgery I work at he would have to show proof of residency of the children, birth certificate or passport. He could register them temporarily if they needed to see a GP for something immediate and necessary which would not mean them being deducted from your current surgery, I'd speak to the practice manager at your surgery. I would imagine nothing will come of this anyway. Let him crack on.

diddlydiddlydoo · 01/11/2019 21:06

They're 5 and 7. Yes I've been trying to speak to the manager but she's been away so relying on admin who arnt too sure.

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welliesarefuntowear · 01/11/2019 21:10

It may be worth writing to the manager then at least your concerns are documented. I can't see how he could do it but I am admin also and not as clued up as the practice manager would be,

Disfordarkchocolate · 01/11/2019 21:15

Speak to your practice manager or the practice nurse. GPs are supposed to have families registered together and make sure that all safeguarding issues are noted. If there has been abuse this should be noted so that he can't access personal info.

diddlydiddlydoo · 01/11/2019 22:37

Thank you for your help. Just one more thing in a long list of twattishness visited upon me. 🙄

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