I’m pregnant with our second child. My first child was born in NZ because my husband was working between UK and South Africa. My husband came to NZ 2 weeks before the baby was due. I was induced a week over due, had a very difficult birth followed by a hemorrhage. DH had to leave for business in Australia the day after DC was born. He spent a week and Easter in Sydney (3 hour flight away) but never came back to help me. I looked after DC for 3 months in NZ (without seeing DH by myself) then we moved to South Africa. I’m due to have a second child soon and want this baby to be born in NZ like there sibling. I feel South Africa has no real future and I want my child to have NZ residency etc. I have no support here in South Africa and DH isn’t a great help. DH has very strong feelings of wanting this baby to be born here, as I would have to be in NZ for 5-6 months. But I’m worried he will be of no help and I will be isolated. My family are incredibly helpful and we’re an amazing support for me after the birth of DC in NZ and I know they would be amazing again. I feel so torn what to do. No matter what I do someone isn’t going to be happy and I have to take into consideration DC as well.Does anyone have any advice??