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Feeling odd when being kissed in new relationship

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jellyjelly · 17/08/2007 09:09

Have started a new relationship after pretty much being single for a year. Have had a couple of things but they fizzled out.

New bloke seems to be really good except i feel funny when he kisses my neck (He was laying down and tried to nibble with nipples and i moved away)not sure if its because it could be leading to sex but it feels odd and i just want him to stop. Please dont tell me to tell him as i dont know if this is a him thing or a me thing because of my x. (I dont love/fancy or want to be with x before that comes up)

We have had sex before and i got things working well so to speak, had my period and didnt want any thing. He is a very cuddly bloke and seems to find it hard not to touch me all the time.

I told him that i didnt want to cuddle all evening long and that i do find touch hard. I can give touch quite often and willingly but i havent had touch given for many years.

All other ways great.

Advice please.

OP posts:
mamama · 18/08/2007 02:23

No advice I'm afraid, just take it slowly. If it is great in other ways, I am sure you can work this out. Maybe it just needs a bit of time.

Congrats on finding someone nice though - that doesn't seem to be an easy thing to do.

TheMoistWorldOfSeptimusQuench · 18/08/2007 17:42

No advice either, really, but your neck is a really vulnerable and sensitive area. If it's early days, I'm not suprised this makes you feel a bit funny. Maybe a glass of wine or two would help you to relax a little? (sorry if that's inappropriate or stating the bleeding obvious)

Sounds like you've been quite frank with him about the touching. Great that you've met someone nice!

jellyjelly · 19/08/2007 14:06

Well we went out and i had a few glasses of wine and they seemed to work. I dont think i will panic. thanks

OP posts:
mamama · 20/08/2007 06:03

Thanks for the update Jellyjelly - best of luck with it all

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