Many years ago, in my 20s, I struck up a friendship with a girl of a similar age. It was simply plutonic, as we lived thousands of miles apart. We wrote to each other for many years, despite both of us having partners at the time (not married, but partners). Eventually it tailed of, we lost touch with each other, I got married, family life and kids etc. took over. She also got married. A few years ago I located and her wrote to her. She responded with a long email and a picture or two, saying lets keep in touch, its so good to hear from you etc. I responded, sent her some pics of my family, saying when you are over here, lets meet up. I have never heard a word since., despite various emails etc. Any ideas - jealous husband perhaps? Let me state, I am happily married.