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Feeling betrayed

8 replies

Rah7 · 30/10/2019 10:45

I recently found out that my very close friends husband is on the Child protection register.
My daughters have spent time with him alone, which his wife was aware of at each occasion.

I’m in shock, I’m angry, I feel totally betrayed.
What do I do?
I’m a complete mess and torn up over it.

OP posts:
Winterdaysarehere · 30/10/2019 10:47

Wow op that's really bad of your friend. Is she still your friend? Not sure I could forgive that tbh.

Rah7 · 30/10/2019 20:53

She doesn’t know that I know yet. It’s only been a week since I found out and honestly I don’t want to have anything to do with them ever again.

OP posts:
TheTickingTime · 30/10/2019 22:29

That's a huge thing to discover. How did you find out? Is your friend aware? Sageguard your children. Distance yourself away from her and him, explain calmly why you have to.

Rah7 · 30/10/2019 23:58

I found out because a mutual friend was concerned when she found out that we were friends. My so called friend also said to another friend that her husband is on the child protection register.

OP posts:
anothernamejeeves · 31/10/2019 13:37

Do you mean sex offenders?

Didntwanttochangemyname · 31/10/2019 13:42

Do you know anything about his crime?

fluffygal · 31/10/2019 13:46

I would think as part of his conditions would be not to spend time alone with children- I would report.

ChuckleBuckles · 31/10/2019 13:47

I agree with Fluffy report this, that is shocking behaviour by this woman, she is no friend.

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