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Learn from my mistake please

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timetostartagain · 28/10/2019 21:32

I recently posted under this username about the destruction my partner done to my flat and belongings. I received some good support and advise from here and in RL, only I didn't listen and now I'm paying for that.
Please feel free to read previous post.
Despite being told not to let him back in my life or flat, I let him stay here again as a friend and in return he badly beat me and destroyed more of my stuff.
For all ladies that find themselves in this situation please please run and run as fast as you can.
These type of men are never sorry, they will say the right words and behave for a short period of time, but they're slowly destroying you at the same time mentally and eventually physically causing damage.
Nobody deserves to feel unsafe and violated in their own home.
These relationships aren't about love, it's about control and conditioning you to think a certain way.
If you're reading this and even a small part of it sounds familiar, get out and get out now because I promise you it will get worse.
There is help out there find it and use it, don't become another statistic

OP posts:
Nc77 · 28/10/2019 21:38

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Hope you are okay lovely.

category12 · 28/10/2019 21:45

I hope you're safe now?

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timetostartagain · 28/10/2019 21:49

Thank you, I am safe now. My home as been made more secure I have a safeguarding team helping me be safe, and I have my friends and family. He was arrested and charged and with that comes bail conditions

OP posts:
Interestedwoman · 28/10/2019 23:17

Glad some safeguarding has been put in place, and bail conditions. So sorry you've been through such a bad time. Please follow your own advice and don't have anything more to do with this abuser than you have to ever again. xx

MikeUniformMike · 29/10/2019 08:47

Thanks for starting the thread, OP. Hope you are OK.

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