Ex baby mum

[hanna96]

So my partner has planned a football tournament for his team of kids he coaches. One child being his kid.
They are going away for 5 days and I've not been invited and I find out that his ex is going now with there other child. And my partner never told me. I'm absolutely gutted and hate it. What do I do. I'm not happy about it and don't think that for me that is slightly fair. He doesn't listen or try to put it right. I am so confused wondering whether I'll never be enough or ever be her.

Need girls advice ASAP

He's going because he's the coach. She's going because she's a parent. That sounds fine to me, guessing there is a back story though?

Unless there’s a big back story then I think you’re being unreasonable. Why did they split up originally?

So no football he does with his child alone. She doesn't normally go. He said he wants it just for them. She wanted to share accommodation with him too. She is only doing it because she knows it will cause problems. One minute she's his best m8 next Hates him. Uses the los as weapons all the time. And I completely get she's the mother never would I think any different but there is no way my partner would be ok with it being the other way round with my los dad.
I just know how she is. And it's the fact my other half didn't even tell me I found out from one of the kids

If he’s the coach he’ll be concentrating on that. His sons will need someone to be the parent and get them organized while he does team stuff.
You are being paranoid. Would you have his kids ignored, not eat, and not have someone looking out for them just because you object to their mother accompanying them, like the rest of the mothers are accompanying their sons?

Not both parents are going for the children. And I love the children. He wanted to just go him and the lo. But she said she is going to go too. I know they will be in the same place when they have to that is fine but lately everything is just more and more her and my other half a lot

They know each other, share a child, so it makes sense for them to share accommodation. I don't think you have anything to worry about, your husband lives with you not his ex wife.

(What's all the starting a new post with 'so' about? You did it twice!)

If the 96 in your name is relevant to your age then I think this is far too much for you to be taking on.