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Have I been ghosted?

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jasminfh · 25/10/2019 14:49

I'm new to all of this dating stuff, was married for 23 years and then my ExH left me last year after an affair.
I've not wanted to see anyone until a couple of months ago when an old friend of mine got in touch and we began exchanging friendly messages. These quickly became more than friendly and we met up a few times (nothing happened but there was an atmostphere of possibility). Last week things got a bit hotter in the messaging and we exchanged messages that were suggesting that he was interested in more than friendship. Going as far as to say what he wanted and did I want that too? I answered yes and now haven't heard from him for a week. He's ghosted me, hasn't he?

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LuluBellaBlue · 25/10/2019 14:51

Urgghhhhh yes, sorry Hmm
Why do they do that??
I guess it was the chase, once he knew you wanted him, his ego was boosted and he buggered off.
His loss!

ChippyPickledEggs · 25/10/2019 14:57

I'm sorry jasminfh, it's a shitty thing to happen when you've just got the courage up to dip your toe in the water again. But there's no good reason for you not to have heard from him in a week. Let this one go - there will be others.

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