I've copied this from another thread and hope Angel doesn't mind but thought she would get more help with her own thread. Please advise her.
Angel63 on Thu 16-Aug-07 02:22:46
I don't think so. Been married to second hubby for almost 12 yrs. He's diabetic, lost his right leg in 2005, anger problems, has not slept with me since 2002 (said it was originally punishment for a one-night stand I had) then he lost his leg and could not get up the stairs to our bedroom. He has been totally & completely impotent since about 2002. He has severe dental disease, I mean decay down to the gumline and won't see a dentist. Says we don't care and are letting him die. He now after almost 6 yrs. suddenly wants back in my bed...NO WAY!! I am hurt,confused, angry, and now disgusted by him. I even went along with a threesome for him in 2002, then he accused ME of cheating! Yes, I do have bi tendencies, but have not acted on them. I have been through hell with this man. He controls everything. I have no money, no bank accounts, no credit cards, nothing. I want to leave, but am afraid. I have to turn my paychecks over to him. I have not been happy for years. He just thinks it's due to my being Bipolar--hell, I'm crazy because of him!! I just want to be truly loved again, to have physical love again, to be kissed and not grossed out, to dance again, all the things I dream of each night. I want out but am terrified. He took a hammer to my daughter's room one night. I have 3 kids by my first husband (deceased). They are all grown. Two of them say "Go." Any advice??