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Missing xp

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MsDFye · 22/10/2019 22:38

I broke off my relationship with XP in May. He wasn't a bad person but could be a bit thoughtless and we had very different lifestyles. I have since regretted ending things and asked him several times if we could try again. It now seems that he started seeing someone else quite soon after we broke up Sad.

I know that I need to move on but can't quite seem to do so. I am not depressed - I am busy, have a good social life and lots of friends - but I still really miss him! I beginning to wonder if this will ever pass?

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MsDFye · 22/10/2019 22:43

Just to add - I have not been in touch with him at all for several months. We do not have any mutual friends. I have written a long list of things that annoyed me about him. None of this seems to help.

Also, I personally know four couples who have reconciled after sometimes lengthy periods apart and now seem really happy. I think this is giving me false hope that one day he will change his mind and come back.

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PumpkinP · 22/10/2019 22:59

I think you need to move on. You broke up with him and he is entitled to move on even if it was quick. Times a healer

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