I feel awful. It sounds stupid, do over reacted.
I made a passing comment to dp...basically I was carving a chicken and he kept reaching over me and taking bits of chicken/skin off. I asked him to stop then as I was serving the food he took a big spoon of stuffing that was swimming in the chicken fat and I said 'that's disgusting, it's all fat'.
He lost it! Started shouting at me saying i won't speak to him like that and when I brushed him off saying he was being silly he got more annoyed and started shouting and pointing finger in my face 😰
He was saying my attitude is horrible and I won't put him down like that. Then I was shouting at him to stop and I slammed down my knife and fork on table and stormed up stairs upset. I feel awful on poor kids. They looked so scared.
Ds10 came after me a while later to check on me. I went back down and he started again. Ds 9 said to him are you not going to apolagise and do kept saying' your mam has to apologize!!' He was mimicking me too.
Wtf is wrong with him? This will go on for a week now because he won't 'give in' and neither will I. I said to him 'you won't ever do that to me again' and poor ds wrote a message on my notepad in phone 'are you and dad going to break up?'
Wtf how can something escalate over something so stupid.
He said he was annoyed as earlier we were discussing kids and I said hat he bagged them too much over stupid things and it knocks their confidence.
He is a normal guy, how can he treat me like that just because he's in bad form!