I was staying with my aunt, who's in her early 50s, her husband and my cousin.
Her husband has always been pleasant and polite enough with me, but I know they have had their issues.
He's French but my aunt isn't, they live in France together and I go over to visit them when I can.
A year ago they almost got divorced and they had a screaming match in front of me with them both accusing the other of affairs (no idea if any of it is true).
She also informed me once by email that she was 'having a crisis with him' and wouldn't tell me what it was, but asked me not to tell my Dad. I think he also smokes weed in the house even though they have a son there who is 13.
Anyway fast forward and they seemed to be back on track. I visited not too long ago and something odd happened.
He has his own office and I asked if I could print my boarding pass as he has a printer.
I needed to log onto my email account but saw it was still logged on his. On the top, there was an email from gaydar. I looked and there were a few, and also from another site which translates as 'adoptaguy.com'.
They were either alerts that people had liked or messaged him.
I was in shock but said nothing. The next Day, I told my Mum what I had seen, she said it was best to say nothing as I didn't know what went on in their marriage, they have a child together, and maybe my aunt was aware of it..
She's maybe right but I still feel torn. Especially as they are gay websites and hes married to a woman. I just wonder if she has no idea and he's meeting other men (and maybe women) behind her back.
Would others say something ?
Thanks