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Am I the only one that's discusted by this behaviour?

32 replies

98Charlotte · 21/10/2019 17:33

Going to try to cut a long story short.

Basically parents wanted us to move here and we're nice to get us here, then when we moved things changed and they have wanted us out.
We've been trying to save for a place and everything we need, as well as pay for essentials at the moment and the baby. We pay them each month which also takes away from this and will continue to pay what we own when we move, and don't know if the amount they want will be affordable.
I've only just got a job in the last couple of weeks, and with the costs of everything round here it hasn't been realistic to move before then.

Say they're selling the house, which will make us homeless, she's only just 3 months and I don't think they see anything wrong with doing this.

Always going against me and thinking my sister who doesn't have a child and isn't capable of getting a job is perfect. I even feel like they're trying to cut me out of their life and will. (maybe it won't be a bad thing).

Am I right to feel annoyed and discusted with their behaviour?

OP posts:
SorrowfulMystery · 21/10/2019 23:34

@PickAChew Grin

OP, this story doesn’t make any sense. No one could have forced you to move anywhere you didn’t want to, assuming you were happy and could afford where you lived. Why did you move? And why would someone entice you to move in with them only to make you homeless?

AnneLovesGilbert · 21/10/2019 23:37

Is your perfect sister being homeless too or going with them?

HUZZAH212 · 21/10/2019 23:49

I'm lost off - do they have 1 house which is the family home, and they're selling it. Or do they have a 2nd property that you're renting from them? Can you set up a repayment plan with them that's affordable? Failing that I'd shop around for a low cost loan to borrow for a deposit and fees for a rental property (that's financially manageable), also the outstanding amount you owe them, and pay it off in one lump and don't accept financial help from them again. I would prefer to repay a bit of interest than be struggling every single month if my family was financially holding me over a barrel.

RosesAndLilies · 22/10/2019 00:27

@ffswhatnext great summary

ffswhatnext · 22/10/2019 01:20

It was the only way I could try and work it all out. Still confused though

bodgeitandscarper · 22/10/2019 14:35

I wouldn't be discusted, they sound like trifling issues. I think you need to find your own accommodation and become more self sufficient.

Aposterhasnoname · 22/10/2019 14:43

Can you give us the long version please op, as the short version seems full of holes.

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