I have posted before asking for your views on a friendship that crossed boundaries. O got great advice and acted upon it.We detached as I was married and he was in a relationship and while things were awkward, for a couple of months, we are now back to being great friends again.
I am now single and my friend has been kind and supportive. Husband has an OW lined up.
Recently, my friend has suggested pursuing activities that we both wanted to do together when I was married. I thought that spending weekends doing hobbies, travel, attending concerts together was not appropriate back then considering I was married, plus my husband would not allow that level of contact.
I think it's a lovely idea but am conscious of his relationship.
Perhaps he is sympathetic.
He has said repeatedly that he looks forward to spending more time together doing these activities.and is back texting at irregular hours after drinks etc.Is this acceptable to his girlfriend? Would it be acceptable to you?They are together a year. I fear that we could fall into that dynamic again and I don't want that. Thanks.