So I recently got divorced after a 20 year marriage, and the thread about Holliday sage after 2 months got me thinking, and the man’s reaction in that.
I realise that I am quite needy and probably possessive despite shedloads of therapy and inner work. This is very distressing and depressing as I can’t see how to change it and inadvertently sabotaged a relationship I had a lot of fondness for.
Does this mean that I am best just staying out of relationships and to keep doing the work, as I simply am not going to know when I am unconsciously screwing things up or do people work these out together?