Do you outgrow a relationship?

[Cherrytomato82]

I don't find him hugely attractive anymore. Lots of things annoy me. Lack of help round the home lack of consistent help with our children.

We are not however in a financial position to live separately so I'm not sure what the answer is?

Communication.

Surely he wants to be attractive, a good husband and father but has possibly lost his way. Find the right time to talk about it with him.

I felt the same as you not long ago but after a few good heart-to-hearts, my husband is living healthier (and is therefore more attractive), is doing more around the house, is a better father and even did the weekly shop by himself for the first time ever.

Give him a chance to do better first, before you make any big decisions.