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Ex is a pathological liar

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Survivor2019 · 17/10/2019 21:26

Please help me, me and my ex split earlier this year and it’s literally been hell, I’ve found out a lot since we split up like stuff he lied about during our relationship, I’ve found out he’s been making up lies about me to his new girlfriend, that I’m demanding more money from him, that I’m struggling, that I’m asking him to have the kids all the time, That I’ve been poorly so he’s had to stop late to put the kids to bed.
It’s all really weird pointless stuff and none of it’s true. I don’t know what to do or think of him right now.
If I bring it up he will lie more, if I message her I will look like the crazy jealous ex, if I do nothing I’ll feel like shit.
He’s a pathological liar and I don’t know how to handle it. I don’t want people believing these lies!
Anyone been through anything similar?

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PositiveLife · 17/10/2019 21:39

Ignore it.

I've had similar - I tried to argue my point, etc and it all just got used by him to tell people I was crazy. I hit rock bottom and none of our mutual friends gave a shit cos they all believed him. I've realised who my real friends are, cut the rest off and am much happier.

Anyone who wants to believe him can do so. I don't have the time to give a shit about people that believe his bullshit.

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