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I don't know what to do

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MummaBel · 17/10/2019 16:04

Me and my husband broke up a few months ago. I've started seeing someone but a part of me wants my husband back part of me wants to stay with the new guy. Me and my husband argued all the time, everything he did wound me up everything I did wound him up. It was toxic and he was emotionally abusive. This new guy is so sweet he makes me feel so happy and he wants me to be sure this is what I want but I really don't know. I feel so lost I just don't know what to do. I want to give it a go with this guy but a part me feels guilty. I want to keep the good co parenting relationship we have as we're getting on well atm, I don't want to ruin that for our child but this new guy makes me happy. What do I do?

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rhubarb39 · 17/10/2019 16:05

Hi, sorry to hear. Have you seperated at all before?

Aquamarine1029 · 17/10/2019 16:08

I think you need to be single for a while and get your head straight. You are all over the place. Focus on your children, not your abuse ex or the new guy you're shagging.

MummaBel · 17/10/2019 16:08

Never properly since having our child, he walked out on me and our child a few times.

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puppyconfetti · 17/10/2019 16:10

What do I do?

Have some time to yourself.

rhubarb39 · 17/10/2019 16:10

I agree with aqua if you're not sure have a break from both, give yourself some time

bobstersmum · 17/10/2019 16:15

Definitely agree that you need time away from both. You won't be able to think clearly with someone else on the scene.

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