So me and dp both work. Full time and have a 1 year old plus his three older ones 40%.
He does washing up x 3 days and cooking (takeaways or pizza as can't really) on the days all kids are here for him and older ones. He's never cooked for me or baby. I am veggie and he isn't so says he can't. I cook meat for him.
He ties the toys up every day and does 2 clothes washes a week but this is barely half as baby gets through a lt of clothes.
We split childcare evenly for. Our joint child but he does more night waking as he's a night owl and I start work before 6am. I do all bathtimes and bedtimes.
He has hoovered twice, in 8 months, never mops or brushes floor, won't do DIY as 'cant', says he will do garden but I've cut grass more often than him as given up waiting. Does no weeding. No pruning.
Never cleaned bathroom eg bleach or windows or dusted.
Am I being mad or is this unfair!? I approach it and he seems to think. He does everything, genuinely. Even if I list the stuff around the house.
How can I make him see he needs to help in bigger jobs eg garden or house repairs as I can't keep on top of everything.