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What to believe?

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Autumneve3 · 14/10/2019 06:03

I got out of a rubbish relationship a while ago and have taken some time to get myself back on track.

Over the last 4 months I've been dating what I believed to be a nice guy. He has shown interest, took me out and treated me nicely....it has been a lot different to my previous relationship.

Tonight we went out on a night out and he was driving, he dropped me off first and continued to take my friend back to pick up her car that she and left by his house.

Later on, I had a call from my friend saying that she had gone into his house for a chat and that he had really been trying it on with her.

She had been flirting with him the entire night. I haven't had his side of the story but he spoke to me last night before she did, like everything was fine.

I've sent a message to him saying I know we are only dating but if you wanted to have sex with someone else could it have been anyone but my friend. I shall see what his response is...

I know it's not a serious relationship but they both know what my ex was like and I feel pretty let down. I have told my friend not to speak to me for a while. Am I being harsh as she was only telling me what happened? But then on the other hand why go in for a 'chat'.

Any advice welcome :)

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Bluntness100 · 14/10/2019 06:07

Why go in for a chat, or maybe why invite her in?

I suspect what she's told you is true. Looks like they were both at it.

I think you need to end it with him if he's hitting on your mates. Even if she did flirt, bottom line is if he had any respect he wouldn't have invited her in and come on to her.

Lozzerbmc · 14/10/2019 06:15

Well she is not much of a friend flirting with him

  • sounds like leaving her car at his was a plan. And awful of him to try it on with your friend!

You should end it with him i’d say.

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