I am in a shit relationship. No intimacy and we only speak about our child. Aside from this we lead separate lives. In general I am happy as our DD is amazing, I like my job, I have lots of friends and I don’t need my partner. I know we should separate but neither of us wants to be apart from our DD so we are just living like this until she is older. The main problem I have at the moment however is that I really miss sex and physical intimacy. I actually feel a bit desperate to be with a man to the point where I was standing next to a man at work the other day and I had a massive urge to hug him. Totally mad, I know. I didn’t know him (as our office is massive and I am new and don’t know most people anyway yet), but he was quite manly and all I wanted for a moment was to be enveloped in a big hug. I am also horny and have been for the past two years since we stopped having sex. I want to do something about it but am in limbo because I feel weird about the thought of trying to find someone to have sex with, and actually don’t really know how to approach it as I would only want a no strings attached thing if anything. I have been thinking about trying a sex party but am too scared/shy. Aaagh, anyone else in this predicament?