My husband had an affair which I found out about in January although it had ended sometime before. He has tried everything to make the relationship work however I just do not feel the same in my heart.
I dont know what to do anymore. On one hand he is helpful, kind and hardworking, a good dad to our children. He is generous with money, does all the housework etc. However on the other hand I know I am spending my life with someone who treated me so badly. We have been together a long time and I could never act towards him the way he did to me. But he seems genuinely very remorseful and has done a lot to show he is sorry.
If we split my kids lives will change drastically. We are not well off but can afford a holiday each year, activities and trips. If we split then running two households will mean only the basics are covered and that seems so unfair on the children.
I suppose what I’m asking is when did you know it was time to end it all? There are no arguments, or bad atmosphere, I feel like ending it would benefit only me.