New relationships after infidelity

[OnwardsandUpwards27]

Afternoon all, I am a year and half passed DDay from my ex husbands affair and after 6 months I got in a new relationship- I wasn't ready and he had issues also so ended after 6 months. I am loving being on my own at the moment and rebuilding myself again but wanted to hear people's stories about meeting people after a failed marriage or a relationship. I know I am not ready to date yet but interested on hearing how people met there new partner after being hurt so badly? I thought my husband was perfect he obviously wasn't and I am finding it hard to think how I will find someone new when I am ready.
I moved away from my home town and don't know many people so hard for me to meet someone out. would love to hear some nice stories after such a horrible time and that there is light at the end of the tunnel x

I'm surprised no one has replied. I know of someone who started dating about 4 months after separation and 3 months after DDay. I think her partner is a saint as even when they were already dating she'd have shouty fights with her exH and how much she stilled love him. Anyways, they've been together for about six months. About a month ago he officially moved in with her kids and they all seem happy.

I’m in a similar situation myself op. I know I look for red flags and wonder sometimes if I’m being too harsh. Especially in the world of online dating.

Would be great to hear some positive happy endings.

Can’t give you a happy ending, not reached the end yet. But over a year into a new relationship and we’re all good. Taking it gently and slowly, trying to be open with my wobbles and remembering that he has his own wobbles too.