Hi, I'm hoping people out there could shed some light on this issue albeit it might be minor and I'm probably being a bit daft it's starting to get to me.
Living with my OH for 2 years now & the agreement was that I'm the cleaner he's the cook. I clean our flat spotless twice a week, he probably cooks once a week so the rest of the week it's a bit all over the place like he'll grab a wrap from the shop & I'll put something in the oven. The last few months when he gets home from work he'll sit down we'll catch up & then he or I will ask what each other fancies for dinner, decision gets made then when he doesn't move I assume he's tired so of course I offer to cook but get told 'no, I'm doing it, just let me finish watching this' then this goes on for a couple of hours by which point I go in the kitchen to start & he'll say go sit down I'll do it but he doesn't! I have digestive problems (IBS) & don't want to eat late at night so by the time he eventually goes to cook I say no thanks & go to bed. It's not just with cooking though, for instance : bin night.. we'll have 2 or 3 bags to take out the front & around 8/9pm I'll remind him, I get the usual 'I'll do it later' to which I say ' I'll do it now in case you forget' but no... he insists on doing it so I leave him to it. Wake up the next day bin men have been & ours are still in our bin! This is happening a lot & my mom said I should just DO it all & not listen to him but that seems a bit unfair considering I will then be cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing & taking out the bins. Any idea's what I should do? Thanks for reading.