Hi, I am driving myself crazy with this dilemma. I am planning towards leaving my covert narcissist-esque husband and share a home with him and our 3 children. I am agonizing over the way to tell him, as the potential aftermath concerns me. He has not been physically violent beyond pushing my arm aside on occasion, but his temper scares me. I'm also paralysed by articles and anecdotes about abusive partners who have killed after someone dares to leave them. Help! I have already spoken with a solicitor and been in contact with my country's equivalent of Women's Aid. Has anyone been through a similar situation?