I am 99% certain my partner had an affair 3 years ago, I think with a girl he worked with as I overheard some conversations and flirting and also witnessed them cosying up to each other.. Both denied it. She left the job but I think they remained in contact.
I was very upset and in total denial that he could of said the things I overheard, stupidly I never thought he would do that.
A year or so later I thought he was up to something as his, so I went away for 2 weeks. On my return the house had been cleaned and the dishwasher was full of China we don’t use. The cushions on Our settee in the front room (which again we don’t use)had been squashed and rearranged, I found these things out over several days..
He and the other woman had regularly been on watsapp at the same time while I was away and when I was at the airport on my return.
He said no one had been there when I asked about if he had visitors.
A week or so later I overheard another woman leave a msg on his phone but he deleted it after she said his name.
I am trying to move on but this still haunts me.