I just want our

[livingforthegooddays]

I've had enough of my relationship. I feel under valued, not appreciated, controlled and just completely broken.

We been together 8 years, 2 children. Sometimes he's been violent, said horrible things. We've broken up got back together over and over.

This time I want him gone for good. How can I do this without a big kick off argument where he will no doubt go for me.

Obviously the first thing people will say is call the police if he gets angry. It's not that simple he wouldn't just allow me to call them he will take my phone for certain. I don't want to leave this is mine and my kids home, it's private rented tenancy is in my name.

Any ideas please

I'm no expert but I'm sure I have seen on here that you can involve the police with telling him to leave if you have a genuine fear of his reaction? One way or another you need back up don't do it alone but DO do it. You are very clearly better off without him.

Call the police and tell them you need assistance in removing your violent, abusive partner. Do you have any male family or friends who could come over and be there when you tell him to leave? Also, you could pack up his things, get them out of the home and immediately change the locks, which I recommend you do anyway. You need to get him out as quickly as possible.