Hi all,
I’ve been on a few dates with a guy who seemed lovely & then I noticed a few things that I thought are red flags and I just need some advice from you lovely people.
Firstly, & I know I should not have done this but I arranged the first three dates and on the fourth asked him to book a restaurant - I meant book it, that’s all as I had tickets for a concert that I was given by a friend and he bounced this back to me with the following “I thought being a regular London diner that you would have more knowledgeable places at hand”, followed by sending through a venue MILES away from the concert. Followed by a “we don’t have to have dinner before the concert”; so I uninvited him (nicely) and this was followed by a huge “we need to meet as I owe it to you to explain my behaviour”; I couldn’t meet him that week due to a combination of family stuff, feeling ill and dealing with a death of one of the team at work. This week I’m on holiday and I had a look on the app on which we’d met and discovered he’d removed me, when I asked why I was told “ I’ve cleared everything from the app. I don’t want a reason to go on the app, the only reason to go onto the app is to read your profile but if I can met you in be flesh then why would I want to stay on the app to read a cyber profile. But in hindsight maybe I shouldn’t have done so since we don’t see each other these days.” Had he behaved the other Saturday when we were meant to go to the concert we would have met up, but we didn’t.
Tell me, after meeting three times is this worth it?