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What kind of relationship is this?

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Mrshappy2019 · 04/10/2019 10:24

I’m in the process of a separation from my husband. Without going into full details the marriage has been over for a long time however we spoke and decided it’s best to end things. 2 weeks ago he moved out and is currently staying with a friend. So far everything has been amicable and I’m 100% sure it’s the right thing
Now I have a friend (male) who had kept at distance but since hubby moved out we’ve been talking on a pretty much daily basis. He’s divorced and single and we just talk. I find him very helpful and enjoy his company. I know it’s early but is it ok to just talk with this man? He is helping me

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Cherrypicker01 · 04/10/2019 10:27

Of course it is. You do what you need to do to make yourself happy and keep the support around you at such a difficult time

Mrshappy2019 · 04/10/2019 10:29

Thank you cherry picker Smile

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Aminuts23 · 04/10/2019 10:43

Yes it’s fine but be careful. I had a male friend when I left my ex. He was brilliant and I relied on him for support to an extent. I developed feelings for him that I shouldn’t have done and ended up getting very hurt. I fell into a grief that was like a double whammy and realised I’d not come to terms with the end of my last relationship properly, even though it was my decision, and the right decision.
So yes have a friend but just be wary

joystir59 · 04/10/2019 10:50

Do not slide from marriage into new relationship. When a relationship ends it's an opportunity to take stock of oneself and enjoy oneself/process pain. Don't be tempted to distract yourself too much with this new friendship

RLEOM · 04/10/2019 11:48

I find that a lot of men prey on women when they discover a woman has become single. Just be careful.

hellsbellsmelons · 04/10/2019 12:26

You can what ever friends you like.
Male or female.
If he is helping then all is good.
As others have said, take it slowly!

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