Hi so I've been dating at guy for over a year call him peter all was going well, talking about moving it ect. I have 2 children one with special needs. He is not the dad.
So we went away for a weekend trip to somewhere special that my ds has been super excited about going to, he has autism so him having a meltdown because of sensory overload was expected.
Peter gets involved when meltdown happenes so I asked him nicely to not get involved as I was calming him down and had nearly done it and didn't want it to start all over again (ds he gets embarrassed)
Peter gets moody but does leave it. So on the way home ds had got something from the shop that he wanted to build but he needed to wait till after school the next day as was super late when we got home so because of autism ds repeatedly asked same question once every hour. Now peter gets worse so I say don't get involved. He says u can't tell me what to do this is not autistic behaviour it's bad behaviour and I said how would u no when u have only been around someone who has autism for a year and don't read about it ect and then peter said well tell your son to shut the fuck up then 🤬 so I ended the relationship there and then. Peter is now saying that he's done nothing wrong and I shouldn't of wind him up and I'm to blame for every and I should learn how to parent. (Peter has no children) I think it's disgusting that be would talk about my son like that aibu?