Not a boyfriend, a husband of nearly 40 years.
He had a hissy fit at a party at the end of August and stormed off swearing. Long story abbreviated, nobody other than him thought I'd done anything wrong.
Nothing more was said but I was very embarrassed. The person who thought they had said something (which wouldn't have annoyed anyone except DH), was very apologetic to me and because I was frightened by DH response I said more about DH than is public knowledge.
I decided I wouldn't join him at events with the same group of friends. They are all people we worked with but DH has always isolated me from them. If someone had invited the both of us he would just say it's boy's night only, when I find out later it wasn't.
DH has just said that one of the group has a birthday party on Saturday and he had an email ages ago and he thinks my name was on it, ie I was invited too
These friends, who I also worked with ages ago know nothing about DH abusive behaviour to me.
I'm just shaken. Why does this upset me so?