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Guy I was seeing met a girlfriend after days

28 replies

Crystal1981 · 03/10/2019 17:10

It was just under 2 months, wasn't official but I think it was on the way to becoming it. He seemed very into me, we spent a lot of time together and it was going really well. I was sure he really liked me. He went on holiday for 2 weeks, and met someone else there who's from the UK and was in a relationship with her by the end of the week. Pictures of them were coming up on Facebook but it said she had a bf so I didnt suspect anything.
I wasn't told, I found out via social media. They are now back here and his profile picture is already of them, and people writing on social media how cute a couple they are.
I am in shock, nothing seemed off, he only went for a fortnight and it's like I never existed.
I confronted him and all he did was coldly tell me 'I dont exactly owe you anything'.
Then he claimed he did really like me but 'this happened'.
Ive blocked and deleted him on social media. It's like I never existed, I dont know what to make of this.
Please, dont tell me that I shouldnt be upset because we were not official, as I have seen others being told on here. A couple of months isnt long but still.

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DinoroarDinosaur · 03/10/2019 19:28

If this is the OP who I think it is, you've seriously got to move on now. Dwelling on it and questioning everything he does isn't going to make you feel any better. You were seeing him on a casual basis, he went away, met someone else. It's horrible being rejected by someone you like and hope to be with, but no amount of over-analysis is going to change that. Seriously, forget about him. He's not worth all this angst.

RueCambon · 03/10/2019 19:37

This happened to me a couple of times. A holiday early on seems to "kill" a fledgeling relationship.
In my case he was a lovebomber. He went on holiday to Spain and just planned before he went to not contact me when he got back. It hurt, it made me angry, but now when i look back on it i think, well, who i was was real. He was playing the part of somebody. No wonder he got tired.

GeneHuntLover · 03/10/2019 20:07

Oh God, not you again. You should be banned for your own sake

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