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Did we do it ?????

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Sweetpeach3 · 03/10/2019 10:34

Ok so if you've seen previous posts youll see DP and I aren't getting on and I am leaving him.
I'm 7 months pregnant and we don't have sex or anything we barely speak...

Atm we're currently away that's why I havnt left as yet. Stupidly we share a bed as he won't get on the sofa and he told me to but won't give me a sheet so my only option is sleep in bed as it's ice bloody cold in a caravan and the sofas aren't comfy. I managed till 3am the other day but I was froze
Anyway last night I think he had sex with me whilst I was asleep?
I'm usually a deep sleeper once I get into my sleep And he knows this.... like nothing will wake me when iv had a few bad nights of not sleeping. When I finally get a good sleep I'm out of it literally dead to the world. But I just remember feeling him against me then saying aren't you going to do anything "" I don't want to ask as I know he's going to say ""what the fuck have I been dreaming about you dirty slag blah blah blah """
But I know we must of because when I got up this morning. His juices came out of me ?? 🤢 sorry for all the info but wtf do I think or make or do of this ???

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 03/10/2019 10:38

Being on holiday with him was no reason to stay at all with him, particularly now. This relationship is well and truly at an end and he in all likelihood won't be a decent father figure to his child either. That child needs also to carry your surname going forward.

I would contact Rape Crisis and the Police as a matter of urgency.

Sweetpeach3 · 03/10/2019 11:07

@AttilaTheMeerkat iv no way of getting home or I would of gone before we came. It's just comepletely broken down since been here an I can't take no more.

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Bestronger · 03/10/2019 15:25

You will need to report to the police and women crisis to help you as soon as possible as this isn't right the way he treated you and had sex with you without your consent.

CuntyMcBollocks · 03/10/2019 15:32

You need to report the rapist to the police asap, and I agree with pp about giving your child YOUR surname.

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