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5 year relationship fading ?

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IHATEU15 · 02/10/2019 23:10

Hi

So been my BF for 5 years but for about 1 n half year he has slowly stopped saying I love you I always have say it first and he doesn’t really hug me also we don’t take pictures together anymore he doesn’t call me babe or relationship names

He says he loves me but he doesn’t say it to me we also feel more like best friend or roommates than a couple we do have child together he also doesn’t list to me and I do all cleaning don’t hardly help me he also doesn’t pay anything for child toys clothes nappies it’s all me

So question is does this sound like a relationship to stay in or leave ?

OP posts:
redastherose · 02/10/2019 23:38

What are you getting out of this relationship? It doesn't sound like he cares at all if you are doing everything for your child and he does nothing. Loving someone isn't about saying the words it's showing you care every day by the way you treat the person.

NameChangeNugget · 03/10/2019 08:07

Sorry to say this however, it sounds like he feels obligated to be with you, because of your child.

Never experienced it personally however, I have read on here from others who have said loveless relationships are more lonely than being single.

Good luck with what you decide to do but, do not accept this

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