Nc for this as anyone involved or their partners are on here which I’m sure they are.
I’m just so fed up with my partner at the min he spends half of the evening on his phone texting his mates from work who’s he’s been with all day and it’s really starting to fuck me off now. And the other half requesting absolute silence whilst he watches his footy programs or a series.
Never wants to hold a conversation about how my day has been as it’s obviously not as interesting as what his mate has to say about the latest bet he’s placed. I might sound immature about that but my partner doesn’t text me during the day on his breaks to even say hi how’s your day going and it’s really starting to get to me now and I have realised it’s getting to me because I have just woke up from a dream where he was glued to his phone which is clearly the norm for him.
He can’t be arsed with anything when it comes to me. It’s little tiny things like he can’t be arsed to think when I ask him a question and just responds with ‘I don’t know’ or ‘can’t remember’ a prime example is tonight he nipped round next door (just moved to a new area) to ask the lady if she knew how the cooker worked as we were struggling with it and I asked him if her house was laid out the same and he said no it’s an L shape and I said ok so does it have a hallway like ours and he said ‘can’t remember now’ I felt like kicking off and saying yes you can remember you was round there tonight use your head and think for a minute!!!!
He has been working quite a lot of over time
Lately to support us during our house move and for the costs involved which I get he is tired but I feel like if I say something then the overtime is going to be thrown in my face although it’s not a logical reason for being glued to his phone and acting like he is.
Just had a little conversation with myself in my head about what I will say to him tomorrow but I just end up getting angry. He refused to have sex with me he just stays quiet when I ask or try I just feel so unloved so pushed out and like I don’t matter. I only matter when it suits him when he needs me for something I.e a fucking lift to work so he can be reunited with his work wife.
I’m not going to LTB I’d rather work on the issues if anyone has any ideas on how I can approach this because I’m going to fly off the handle shortly. Also I’m on the sofa because of his snoring which isn’t helping matters.